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Poly Friendly Counseling

Psychology Today – Find A Therapist Search for a therapist, treatment center, support group, or psychiatrist using optional filters for insurance accepted and specialization/area of focus. Filter results based on faith, sexuality, gender, age, language, issues, and treatment orientation!   Poly Friendly Professionals (directory by country, state)   Hgi counseling center Henry Pittman, LPC, LMFT, LCDC Jane […]

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Patterns That Poly Covers Up Perfectly

Whether you are Poly or Mono, relationships demand a lot of your time and attention. They can inspire growth and self discovery, teach compassion and empathy, and build lives that we might not otherwise have. They also provide us with quick and easy escapes from self care and self reflection. Behaviors and ideas that are […]

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Self Discovery Through Relationships

While I would not advise using your relationships as a sole place for growth and learning, it is important to remember that relationships are a place that humans expand, experience, and develop in ways they otherwise might not.   Polyamorous people have a unique opportunity to double on this process. They open themselves up to […]

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Pro-Choice Resources

Get Help  Nonprofit organizations offering pro-choice resources including Legal advocacy, financial assistance, clinics, healthcare providers, all choices counseling, post-abortion counseling & support groups, and more… Pro-Choice Resources Abortion Care Network – Get Help Clinic Access Support Network Texas Equal Access Fund National Abortion Federation

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Austin’s StoryX Explores Non-Monogamy

I have been incredibly lucky to be contacted for many educational and creative opportunities to share my Polyamorous lifestyle with others. I was honored to take a trip to Austin and perform on a storytelling show surrounding a subject I’m very passionate about. StoryX is an experimental storytelling project based out of Austin, Texas. Creator […]

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The Polyamorous Band-Aid

Something I see all too often in my own people-pleasing relationships is the idea the being Poly can fix things or save things. Even by that sentence, you can tell that’s not true but the behavior that this idea creates is rampant in this relationship style for a number of complicated reasons. This idea of […]

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New Relationship and Established Relationship Energy

New Relationship Energy and Established Relationship Energy help us describe feelings that normally occur as relationships begin and stick around. Though it sounds all crystals and yoga, it can be easily compared to “butterflies in the stomach” or getting used to partner after a while. Recognizing these energies and learning to use them wisely can lead […]

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Love is Infinite

There seems to be an inclination that love spent on one person will detract from the love spent on the other. As a polyamorous woman, I’ve had plenty of partners express this sentiment that’s incredibly attached to their monogamous minds. “I don’t want you spending all your love on all these people and not leaving […]

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The Fulfilling of Needs

Sometimes polyamorous people make the mistake of dating a monogamous person. (Me. I’m the person.) Rarely does it ever work out, but it does lead to a lot of fulfilling learning experiences. Most of the time a major conflict is a difference in the way mono and poly people look at what they need from […]

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